Mar 13
2010
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there spouse that even laying next to them in bed at night disgusts you?I'm sorry if you are describing your own feelings. I can't imaging that feeling. Even when I've been upset with her I never found her disgusting. I'm not even sure how to interpret that. Do you feel repulsed?
I think you should try to find out why. Counseling or a marriage book or something. Is there something he can do to change how you feel? If so, talk to him about it. I hope you can work on this. It doesn't seem like something you would want to keep living with.I've had that, but luckily didn't marry him. I'm married to such a nice bloke now. The thought of d1ckhead makes me sick.I had that in my first marriage. It was terrible. I hate it. When I had to have sex with him, I was lying there crying.
Needless to say we got divorced. Once you get to that feeling of disgust there's no amount of counseling that gives you back that loving feeling!!
Although you should try counseling, you never know, it might work out!!!no, i would never get into bed with a guy that disgusted me, let alone marry him.WOW I AM ASTONISHED AT THE ANSWERS! I CANT BELIEVE HOW MANY FEEL THAT WAY.
MAYBE THATS WHY WE ARENT GETTING ANY!!! WE DISGUST THEM, THEY NEVER COME OUT AND SAY IT AND WE LIVE FOR YEARS LIKE THAT. MAYBE!!! WHAT DOES IT TAKE TO MAKE YOU FEEL THAT WAY? APPEARANCE?---I KNOW THAT ISNT IT. JUST ME BEING ME?---THATS POSSIBLE
I MUST INVESTIGATE THIS.I did my EX-husband. That is why he is my ex. You need to figure out why he disgusts you though before you can do anything. Is it him or you. Has he gained weight or changed? Is it that you have someone else in your life that you would rather be with?
YES. I have been there before. Him even touching me mad me sick, The way he talked OMG the the way he would breathe. But, I stuck in there, It went away. I think (my personal opinion) that it goes away in time. Now its not so bad. You sometime fall out of love. But, if you try to make it work it will. I did for my kids sake. Hang in there it will get better. No. If I were disgusted by my husband they would no longer be laying next to be in bed or anywhere else.
As a matter of fact they would no longer be my husband - or most likely even my friend if they disgusted me.no not even! that's not normal. if ur feeling that u shouldn't be together that's a sign of a person not liking someone to the point where they gross u out.I think you need to figure out what has changed. You evidently cared for this person at one time. Just try to see if it is him or yourself that has changed.absolutely not. I try not to think about it.OK ladies, What abut the reverse. I cannot find my an emotion to even like my wife. I know I screwed up someplace but she has been angry most of our marriage and I am a passive person. However as I age I am becomming less patient to the anger. I have a choice leave, remember I am committed and something will change, have an affair (wow) to verify I no longer care. So sometimes Mandi I feel disgust but I am not sure if it's to me or her. All women are not innocent are they?no i usualy can't keep my hands off my wife when i'm home and we are laying down togethorYou have a problem and a big one. You should have never married. You clearly don't know enough about life and love.
Do him a favor and get out of the marriage before you ruin his life.
Sincerely,
Grace
PS He deserves better than that...than you, really.HI, im gonna be honest okay....Yes......he disgusts me..in fact...i don't sleep in the same bed as him. why is it on here, when you're honest and answer a question ,people have to attack you? We are entitled to our feelings. I can't help that's he's repulsive and he wears dirty work socks to bed and he smells...i can't wait to be single again!well, he is not my spouse any longer. right after i had my son, his father repulsed me. taking his clothes off..it grossed me out. i was so turned off by him that i couldn't even sit across from him at the dinner table. i would seriously think about your options. do you want to stay with someone you can't even bare to look at? do what is best for YOU! Good Luck!#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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